Communicate with your partner with kindness

• Womenscorner Desk
• July 3, 2020

Communication is vital in any relationship, but how you’re communicating is what matters most. Most couples are often cruel, spiteful, or hurtful in the way they speak to each other, especially when they’re in the middle of an argument or conflict.

The thing about that is, it doesn’t matter how many times you apologize you cannot take back those words, and over time they build up. They can eventually become a huge wound in the relationship, due to lack of trust, respect, and love for each other.

A great way to prevent this is to promise that you’ll only speak to each other with love, no matter what’s going on. Pick a place to sit in your house as you share how you’re feeling when you’re upset, angry, or frustrated; pick a small object to hold when each person is talking, and promise to listen without jumping in or trying to defend yourself.